Know what you want. Spot red flags before you get hurt. Confidently know when to stay or go. And set yourself up to attract the incredible relationship you’ve always wanted.
Struggling to find a compatible partner who’s ready to commit? Or dating a guy who’s not making your relationship a priority?
You feel like you keep attracting guys who either don’t know what they want, just want to get in bed, or don’t want to commit.
It hurts when you really connect with a guy and get your hopes up…only to have him pull away, say he’s “not ready” or just ghosts on you without a word.
But you’re confused about what red flags to look for, and aren’t feeling confident enough to know whether you should cut bait or give him a chance.
Maybe you just got out of a long-term relationship, or haven’t dated in a while, and you’re not sure what you’re looking for in your next relationship. You’re scared of making the same mistakes and don’t want to end up in another “wrong relationship.”
And if you’re dating a guy who’s not making your relationship a priority, it’s frustrating trying to move the relationship along, wondering if he’ll ever commit.
You worry that your insecurities will get the better of you and you’ll inadvertently push him away.
Then again, there are issues in the relationship, and you’re unsure whether to “be patient” or walk away.
Meanwhile, the clock is ticking. You don’t want to spend months (or years) in a relationship that’s ultimately not going to work (you already did that with your ex!). You’re scared of wasting your precious time in a potentially dead-end relationship.
What if spotting red flags and finding Mr. Right didn’t have to be so hard?
What if you could greatly reduce your chance of heartbreak, only spend time with quality men who have long-term potential, and find Mr. Right faster?
Imagine feeling confident and empowered in dating. You’re crystal clear on what to look for in a quality partner, so it’s way easier to evaluate character and tell if you should stay or go. You’re able to avoid wasting your time with guys who aren’t a match, and maximize your time with honest single men who want a serious relationship.
Imagine knowing how to identify and handle red flags so you greatly minimize or avoid getting hurt. You know what to look for in your next relationship so you know when a relationship is worthwhile and when you should end it. Imagine being able to confidently walk away from a relationship that’s not giving you want you want and need — so you can move on faster to finding a compatible partner eager to make you happy.
Imagine sharing a deep and lasting connection with the love of your life. You feel secure in his love, and know that he feels the same way for you as you do for him. A partner who truly gets you and who you can be yourself with. A partner who’s eager to meet your needs and ready to commit to you.
You’re tired of overlooking red flags, getting your heart broken, and feeling like you’ve wasted your time. You’re ready to finally have a deep and lasting connection with the love of your life.
I totally feel what you’re going through.
Not just because I experienced many of the above issues in my own dating life, but also because I’ve worked with so many women experiencing these very same feelings and situations. You’re not alone.
I coach smart, conscious women who are frustrated that they keep attracting men who are emotionally unavailable or aren’t ready to commit. I help them spot red flags before they get hurt, confidently know when to stay or go, and attract a highly compatible partner who’s ready to make them a priority, so they can have a happy, committed relationship.
And if you’re dating a guy “with baggage” (like a divorced or separated man), my specialty is to help you navigate all the baggage and figure out if he’s right for you so you can have a deeply fulfilling committed relationship.
When you Start Conscious Dating, you’ll:
- Have a powerful tool to help you confidently decide if you should stay or go so that you avoid settling or wasting time in a dead-end relationship or with men who aren’t ready to make you a priority
- Spot red flags with ease and know what to do about them so you completely avoid or greatly minimize getting your heart broken and avoid being relegated to the friend-zone, a booty call, or the rebound woman
- Be crystal clear on what your non-negotiables are and why they’re important to you, as well as what to look for in a quality partner, so you can more easily determine compatibility
- Uncover relationship patterns so that you avoid making the same mistakes or ending up in another “wrong relationship”
- Date with confidence; instead of feeling stressed, anxious, attached, or clingy, you’ll feel empowered, confident and calm, so you can enjoy every moment of your dating journey and feel like a Goddess again
Your Start Conscious Dating Package includes a:
Session Clarity Questionnaire
A Session Clarity Questionnaire help you get the most value out of our time together. It’s a questionnaire designed to get me up to speed on your dating situation so your session is focused on empowering you with solutions for having the happy, committed relationship you want.
Relationship Readiness Assessment
The Relationship Readiness Assessment will help you get clear on the specific next steps you should take to set yourself up for a successful long-term relationship.
If you’re single and dating, this assessment will help you identify potential trouble spots that may come up in future relationships, and also help you determine whether you’re ready to be in a committed relationship, including what areas you can work on to greatly increase your chances of relationship success.
If you’re dating someone exclusively and considering going into deeper levels of involvement with this person, you’ll also take the Relationship Choice Assessment, which will help you identify any big red flags and offer recommendations on how to proceed so that you can make the right decision for your long-term happiness.
90-minute Start Conscious Dating Session
This powerful video call is focused on helping you get crystal clear on your relationship non-negotiables and what to look for in a quality partner so that you can spot red flags before you get hurt, screen for compatibility faster, and confidently decide if you should stay or go so you avoid wasting your valuable time in a dead-end relationship. You’ll leave the session empowered with life-changing new awareness and clarity that will help you manifest a deeply fulfilling committed relationship with the love of your life!
Dating strategies and resources to accelerate your relationship goals
You’ll get worksheets and tools to help you uncover your relationship patterns, get powerfully clear on what you want in a partnership, and start making big strides toward your relationship goals.
60-minute follow-up and implementation session
Two weeks after your first session, you’ll have a follow-up video call where you’ll take the insights and clarity that you gained about what you want in a relationship and translate them into a powerful strategy that you can use right away to start creating the relationship you want. Whether you’re single and looking, or in a relationship and trying to figure out if you should stay or go, you’ll learn the key to screening for long-term compatibility so you can feel clear and confident about how to proceed in your dating journey.
Having the relationship you want is possible.
Whether you’re single or dating or in a serious relationship, Starting Conscious Dating will help you identify exactly what you need to make the right choices with men and have the relationship that you want.
Ready to boost your confidence, avoid wasting your time, and be well on your way to having the relationship you want?
Here’s how to get started:
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Have questions? Please reach out! Email me here.
“In working with you, I gained total clarity on what it is I want (and need) in a relationship and what a healthy relationship for me will look like (or not look like) when I come across it. I was able to put together a clear go-to list of requirements (“must haves” or “it’s the highway”) and needs (“let’s see how we can make this work and if it can’t meet the need – it’s the highway”!)
You are a warm and kind person. It made it easier to confide in you about such a private aspect of my life. You are generous with your time and with your exercises (thank you for sending me all the documents and recordings that you did!)
I could feel the impact of my work with you in my dating/relationships very early on. I now feel empowered instead of drained like I did before. Dating with my head and my heart is guiding me towards the relationship that I want…not a relationship where I settle for what I almost want.
I now know that I am not going to pass over what I’m looking for – I will know when I see it. So I no longer have to second guess myself about cutting bait right away or with continuing on in a relationship – I am clear on what will fulfill me and make me happy!
“Thank you so much! Your ideas resonated deeply to my heart and I feel some promise in moving forward. I love how you unpacked the needs, relationship requirements etc. Everything you said was clear and easy to understand AND most of all, without judgment.
I love that you made me feel like it’s perfectly normal to have made mistakes when with my dating, providing reasons why I made those mistakes, key to not making them again. Guidelines for dating smarter – wow – game changer! Thank you!!!”
“I don’t have dating experience until my early 30th and the first relationship is very challenging. Before I worked with Melissa, I was totally confused by the complicated situation and by my random thoughts.
Melissa is very insightful. She sent me many deep questions before our phone call to help me look at my own needs and what I want in the relationship because that’s the most important part I overlooked. During our phone call, Melissa helped me further clear my head and refine my action plans. After that she sent me some articles and a book that are what exactly I need! She just gets it!
Melissa is definitely a very mindful and insightful coach. Sometimes we are confused and blind in our relationship, and we need a good coach like Melissa to support us to find our way.”